WATCHWORD:
1 “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. 2 For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged. 3 “And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? Matthew 7:1-3
Meditation:
The Blame Game. AGAIN?
YES, again. I don’t like the idea of writing about the blame game…it’s so negative, yet, there is more to say. The way to avoid responsibility for your own behavior doesn’t make any sense at all in the walk of a Christian. But, it has been going on since Adam and Eve, and some of the critical moments in our history featured that same mentality that says, I am not responsible.
The blame game doesn’t fit the Christian. Yet, it pops up in even the best of churches. Did you know that in the 1930s, the German church leaders supported Adolph Hitler? Why? They defended him because he didn’t smoke, or drink, he encouraged women to dress modestly, and he opposed pornography. I wonder what those ‘leaders’ thought about genocide?
You probably heard the story of a young man who showed up at church in raggedy jeans and a tee-shirt. Following the service, he complemented the pastor on a fine message and the pastor proceeded to tell him that he was dressed inappropriately for worship. The next Sunday, the young men showed up in the same garb. At the end of the service the pastor chastised him again about what he was wearing. He said, “You know, Pastor, I prayed about that, but my Lord told me he didn’t know what I should wear, he had never been to this church.”
Whenever we judge righteousness by externals, we get into trouble. In Jesus’ day, the Pharisees had it all together, on the outside. Jesus called them “whitewashed sepulchers”. They used a form of truth to elevate themselves, while putting everyone else down. Selected elements of truth can mislead. Truth without grace, can produce anger and cynicism. Just look at the ancient Jews and you will see that there is nothing colder, drier, and more difficult to achieve, than rigid, legalistic orthodoxy. Think 613 laws. Laws…thou shalt nots.
I confess, there are times when I think everything that is wrong with the world is someone else’s fault. I confess I don’t think there’s anything I can do about that. How wrong can I be? What else can I blame on others? Global warming…someone else did that, not me! And, yet…think the last straw on that poor camel’s back!
I witnessed that some years ago in my own church when two our church when two young ladies arrived for church with piercings, tattoos, hair coloring, and, ah, how do I say this…clothing, kind of. The externals seemed to override the fact that they were there, in church, to worship. Sometimes our judging overshadows our own worship.
I know, that’s hard. But is it? What would Jesus have us do? You know, as Christians we cannot duck that question. I think He would have us speak the truth in love. Truth with grace. Let’s think about how blessed it is to be a Christian, and to act like one. Amen.
Prayer:
Dear Father, please help me to be faithful in all the duties You have entrusted to me this day, fulfilling each with great care and love, without judging and without blaming! Amen.
